Happy International Women's Day!
I love sharing my birthday with such an important day for our gender. Being a woman is complex, beautiful, and, most importantly, powerful: We should celebrate daily.
Today is my 34th birthday, and while I still do not believe I am approaching my mid-thirties, there's freedom in getting older. I do not have it all figured out, and I'm comfortable with that truth. I've accepted all my faults and the phases I've gone through because I would not be here today without them. I am finally embracing who I've outgrown and, more importantly, loving the person I've grown into.
I feel a vibration, knowing that I continue to invite magic into my life.
That doesn't mean it's perfect; it implies it's real.
To celebrate another year around the sun, I wanted to continue my tradition of sharing the lessons I've learned. Some might seem obvious, some might be repeats, but all of them have been internalized and changed my life for the better.
Lotion, lotion, lotion- including your neck.
If it brings you joy, it's not cheugy.
Break cycles by changing your approach.
Don't fall for scammy MLMs on Instagram... seriously, Leanne.
You can only control yourself.
Consistency is the best feeling.
Gradual change is what people don't see when they think "it happened overnight."
It is not selfish to prioritize yourself or have boundaries.
Do not, under any circumstances, stress yourself about algorithms.
Turn the stove fan on when cooking.
Homemade pasta trumps box pasta- it's worth the time to make.
Cringe eras mean you've grown.
Forgiveness is for you, and it happens in stages.
Everyone talks: let them.
If you're unhappy with the little moments, you'll never enjoy the big ones.
Always cook your bacon with the bacon press.
Feel free to try something new: look at how much you love Cyclebar.
You're going to outgrow situations; that doesn't mean you can't appreciate the memories.
Nothing feels better than being "you"- you attract the right people when you are.
Create more than you consume: it fills your love cup.
Your habits define you- choose them carefully.
Balance your impulsivity by using the 24-hour rule.
Use a primer before applying makeup, and always use a setting spray.
People cannot read your thoughts, but in your case, they can read your facial reactions.
The people worth having in your life don't judge you if you fail: they're here to celebrate the wins.
Be honest with yourself, but don't allow yourself to dwell.
You really do deserve good things, babe. This beautiful life is something you created because you kept going- despite the odds.
Not everyone deserves all the pieces of you.
Being a justice warrior is exhausting. You don't need to prove yourself; just let Karma do her work.
Just smile when you're doing something hard or thinking about quitting or giving up. It tricks your mind and helps you move forward.
Only some people are going to understand you.
Rest. Without your phone, without distraction. You will get more done being recharged than being burned out.
Don't be afraid to ask for help: people are there for you.
Stay grateful, and good things will follow.
As always, I'm grateful you're here. I've made the entire Month of March about me. Which, in hindsight, seems shortsighted: have I duped myself because now my birthday will be celebrated right near our anniversary? Or does that mean we have more to celebrate? Time will tell.
We're getting our Marriage License today, which means I have made a decision about this "Surname After Marriage" conflict. I'll tell you what I've decided in 14 days, hehe.
As a gentle reminder, my book is available on Amazon. I used to feel a way about self-promotion, but I've let that go. Why shouldn't I be proud of the work I do, right?
I'll see you next week, friends.
Leanne, this was so, so beautiful! The voice of self-encouragement in number 17 really got me🥺. And Happy Birthday! (Welcome to the 34 club.🤍)